thursday again.. it's time for OC!

just finished watching OC.. seth's grandmother came over to their home. affectionately called "Nana", it seems that the rest have a rather harsh impression of her. however the moment she arrived till after she went to visit the restaurant, she was on her best behaviour.. which confused the rest of the family... then sandy tried to find out why she changed so much, and she went back to her real self... then she blurted out that it was bcos she had cancer and only have 4 more months to live... so she just wants to spend time with her son and grandchildren... and leave a good impression...

sigh... does a person need to face death to really find out what is impt in his/her life? would it be too late then? i did some reflection, and starting to get worried for myself... is what i'm doing now going to matter in my life at all? is this how i want to be remembered by others? have i been guilty of neglecting my true friends for the past few yrs? anyone can tell me the answer??

what will you do, if you know that you only have 4 months to live?